Ditching Dacia

My first post comes a day after I was ditched. Yes ditched. I am still extremely upset about it and actually a little embarrassed. I went to school with Dan and I always had a little bit of a crush, but it never went any further than that. I hadn't seen him since I graduated, but when I moved home last year I moved into the same neighborhood as him. I only ever saw him if we drove by eachother, and we never spoke. Last Friday, Dan and I became friends on Facebook, which, btw, is better than eHarmony if your looking for somebody (believe me, I know this to be a fact). Anyway, I sent Dan an email saying that I thought we lived by eachother and asking how he was....blah, blah, blah, we exchange numbers with the promise to hang out and that's that.

Tuesday rolls around and I'm on my way home when Dan texts me, we chit-chat for a minute then he invites me over to his house, Dan also has a son, so it was such a perfect opportunity to hang out and I brought Kyra over. Dan and I seem to get along really well, the kids had fun together and I ended up leaving with not one, but two separate hugs from Dan. He even text me after I got home saying we should hang out again. Of course I said yes, he was extremely good looking and had his own place and a son. Ahhh...I was swooned.

Fast forward to next day, I talked to Dan at work and we decided to hang out with the kids at his place and watch the Jazz game, totally chill. I was excited all day long...don't think I could wipe the grin off my face if I tried. Finally 5:30 rolls around I run to my car, drive home and jump in the shower. I text Dan that I planned to get ready and be over right after....his response...nothing. I continued to beautify myself and when I was completely ready over an hour later, he still hadn't written back, so I called...voicemail.

At this point I went from excited to extremely pissed off. I was DITCHED. Holy hell, honestly. That has never happened to me and I was mortified. I had to hold back my tears and act like it didn't phase me, but of course it did. It's the next day and I still haven't heard from him. I don't plan on it and he is crossed off from my list of available bachelors. I feel embarrassed. I feel stupid and I actually feel like I deserve way better.

Which is why I deleted his number and now will get ready for the weekend. :) Happy dating everyone!